It may seem like a cliché to say that one should not be rude or mean after winning something, and many people do not know what they should do. That is why we want to give you some of the top tips for etiquette after winning. Here are our tips on what not to say after winning.

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What not to say after winning

1. Do not rub it in someone’s face if they lost

Do not rub it in someone’s face if they lost. You might end up finishing them off completely, and then you will be the one who is in a bad mood. Some people can get really competitive, and if you make them feel bad about losing, it might make them do something not so nice to you.

Rubbing it in someone’s face may look like you saying:

• “I win, you lose. Haha. You should not have bet against me.”
• “It is all your fault. Why did you choose to play against me?”
• “I win because I am better than you.”
• “I won, so I can now do whatever I want, and you have to be my slave.”
• “This is what you get when you gamble and lose. Your luck runs out.”
• “I never saw this coming. You made a big mistake.”

You want to avoid saying things such as these because they will make the person feel bad about losing, and it might make them lose their cool. Doing this will only make them think that they are inferior to you, and their confidence will be affected.

You may be thinking that it is not a big deal, but it really is. The best thing to do after winning is to be calm and relaxed about it. Also, never rub someone’s nose in the fact that you won and they lost because they took a risk, and they will either get over it or react unpleasantly.

Instead, it would be best if you focused on saying:

• “Congratulations to you. Well played. You were a worthy opponent.”
• “I took a risk, and I won. I am delighted, but I have to admit that you were a great opponent.”
• “Thank you for playing with me. It was an interesting game, and I am glad that we could share it.”

When you focus on saying positive things, it will make them feel happier about the loss. For example, if you were playing against someone rude and mean, and then you win because you were better at the game than they were, the chances are that they will feel like a loser because of their attitude the whole time.

Focusing on what you said in your post-game might make them feel more positive about losing.

2. Do not talk down to them

Do not talk down to your opponent.

If you beat them, it doesn’t necessarily mean you have more skill than them. Therefore, you should not say anything negative about what they did wrong or something related to the game.

Stay calm and spread some congratulations for the win instead of grumbling in a jealous way or saying things about how the other person had no skill or that it was all luck.

Talking down to someone after winning might look like saying:

• “I am too good for you. You are not even close to my skill level.”
• “You had no chance to win against me. The game was decided before it even started.”
• “You just got lucky. You have no idea what kind of player I am.”
• “I knew from the start that I would end up winning against you because my skill is superior to yours. I showed it from the get-go.”

Instead, it would help if you were saying:

• “Come on, you did very well, and it was quite an interesting game. I actually had a blast playing with you.”
• “I never would have seen this coming. You really made me think that the win was yours for sure.”

Just focus on saying positive things about them because if they lose, they might feel bad about themselves and their skills when you talk down to them or say demeaning things.

3. Do not congratulate your opponent for their loss

Do not congratulate them for their loss. This is a very nerve-racking thing to do, especially if someone has been rude and mean to you outside of the game.

They might think that you are happy about the way they behaved and now you are in a good mood and want to rub it into their face.

Congratulating your opponent after they have lost might look like saying:

• “I know you were really looking forward to winning. But let’s be honest, I was better than you, so I deserved to win.”
• “I am glad that my skills were superior to yours. It is exactly what I wanted.”
• “I knew from the start that I will end up winning against you because my skill is superior to yours. I showed it from the get go.”

Instead, you should stay calm and say:

• “Congratulations on your game. You played very well, and you were a worthy opponent.”
• “You did very well, and we had a great match.”

The truth is that it will not really affect your mood if you win or lose. It will be the same whether you won or lost. What is essential is the experience you shared with them and that they were a worthy opponent.

In fact, in some cases, you might have even learned something from playing against them.

4. Don’t brag about your win. Try and stay humble about your win

Don’t brag about your win. Bragging is never a good thing to do, especially after winning. Regardless of how much money has been spent, people might feel bad about losing the game. Furthermore, they might feel bad about losing their money or time on the game.

Or they may feel that their skills were not good enough because they lost against you, which might affect their confidence.

Bragging about your win might look like saying:

• “I am too good for you. You are not even close to my skill level.”
• “You had no chance to win against me. The game was decided before it even started.”
• “You just got lucky. You have no idea what kind of player I am.”
• “I knew from the start that I would end up winning against you because my skill is superior to yours. I showed it from the get-go.”

Instead, it would help if you reminded yourself that:

• The other person was a worthy opponent, and they fought hard.
• You were doing well until that point, and you were a worthy opponent.
• Don’t brag. Bragging is not an attractive trait.

After a game, give yourself time to let everything sink in, and then go with a calm and collected mindset.

This will help you avoid looking too arrogant in victory.

Therefore, it would help if you said:

• “Congratulations. I didn’t expect I was good enough to beat you.”
• “I take my win. However, the next turn might be yours. This game is a valuable experience for me for the future.”
• “It was fun playing with you. Thank you very much for sharing the time with me.”
• “You were a worthy opponent. I learned more about my skills from playing against you.”
• “Take it easy, and we can play some other day again.”
• “Thank you for the time. I enjoyed my time with you.”

When saying this, still stay calm and do not try to suck up to the other person or try and make them say positive things about their loss.

As mentioned earlier, there will not really be anything that you need to win or lose. The only thing that matters is how you feel after the game.

5. Help your opponent see the loss as learning instead of defeat

When you lose, your opponent might not be in a good mood. This is because losing is not fun for anyone.

Letting them know that you see it as a learning experience instead of defeat will help make the mood better and help them understand that they did not lose to someone bad or worse than them.

Losing can often feel like you are a failure, especially if they lost against someone they felt was inferior to them.

Because eventually, they will learn from the loss what makes others better than them.

Therefore, you should avoid saying:

• “I should have done something else with my time.”
• “You are not as good as I thought. I am glad to find out.”

Instead, it would be best if you focused on saying:

• “It was fun playing against you. I think you were playing quite well, but the game took a turn when you… That’s where you can focus on improving.”
• “You did very well, and we had a great match. I think you can improve the …”

These are just but a few examples of showing your opponent to focus on the loss as a learning experience instead of defeat.

6. Focus on your victory, but do not be shy about giving your opponent credit

When the world revolves around you, it is good to show that you are not entirely self-centered. Giving credit is a great way to show that you are a decent person and have a great character.

If you want to win something, it is important to follow some of these tips if your goal is to be taken seriously.

Today, it is easy for someone to get away with the attitude that they are better than others. This is not a good attitude because it will only bring negativity from other people with whom you will eventually want to be friends.

In fact, this might even cause them to avoid playing against you because they know that you think you are better than others.

To give your opponent credit, you might say something like:

• “You played more aggressively than I did.”
• “I guess you were able to match my pace at the beginning of the game.”
• “I was very lucky that you missed that opportunity where you could have killed me.”
• “It was a close match, but in the end, I managed to outplay you with ….”
• “I was not expecting you to use that strategy. That is why I lost.”

Final thoughts on what not to say after winning

When someone is winning, it can be easy for them to be rude and mean without realizing it. However, it is crucial to remember that it is not easy to deal with the loss, regardless of your experience.

Therefore, you should always follow some of the tips stated here when playing a game. If you do so, then not only will you be enjoying every game that you play, but people will also see you as a decent person who deserves their respect.

The tips in this guide will help you gain respect from your opponents. It is important to remember that the other person had just as much of a chance as you did to win when you win.

Even if they did not have the skill and ability you did, it would not be acceptable for you to behave arrogantly after your win.